Casual sex is no longer taboo thanks to societal influences, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that women are drinking themselves silly in the name of passion. It’s the complete opposite, actually. In fact, according to a recent survey, there are more than twice as many sexually satisfied women as there are sexually frustrated women. This is according to The Bumble survey, which polled over 11,500 millennial women, and was published in the Bumble Women’s conference, an event that took place in Los Angeles last week. This should not, however, come as a surprise to you, since of the 11,500 respondents, 44 percent of them said they were happy in their relationships and sexual relationships. As for the women who said they weren’t happy with their relationship or sexual relationships? That was 41 percent. So why is casual sex, or more specifically, relationships with strangers, controversial? Just ask the head of Planned Parenthood. The mainstream media have also spoken out against casual sex. “People used to say you don’t choose your friends, you don’t choose your family, you don’t choose your partner,” said Gloria Feldt, founder of Planned Parenthood. “You can’t choose your parents, but you have to choose your partners and be very clear about what that means.” And while there are some risks with having casual sex, some of them can also apply to the standard dating model — in other words, you can get sick or you can get robbed.
Casual sex
As stated earlier, casual sex is a different way of getting into a relationship. It’s very appealing to us (I know I sound like a bimbo, haha) but it can become a double-edged sword. For starters, I think it’s a whole lot easier to do than getting into a relationship. And part of that ease is sexual liberation. I think casual sex also promotes cultural trends that we all hate, like hookups and drinking to get laid. So when we use these tools to get laid, we lose out on a lot of the emotional intimacy we’d get in a real relationship. And by that I mean having someone to laugh and cry with, to go through hardships together. So instead of being emotional friends, we’re just physical friends. I think that’s a big reason why some people say they don’t like hookups, because having no emotional connection just seems to strip people of something really important.
A feeling of alienation is another side effect of casual sex. If you find a person you like and want to date
doublelist.cpm

Should you be concerned about casual sex and STDs? Sure! Just like with anything else, you definitely don’t want to mess around with the fair and unbiased health of your body. The same is true if you’re picking up on someone’s feelings. It’s always smart to use a condom if you’re hooking up with someone new. But beyond that, you can try to slow down. Plus, you can use condoms with any new relationship you start (don’t just stick to one person), and you can be prepared if you get sick.
Will casual sex break up my marriage?
Even though it’s easy and super fun to casually sleep around for the sake of friends, hooking up outside of a committed relationship is a pretty big step. Think about it this way: People who have serious, long-term relationships know a thing or two about the little frustrations that lead to big flings. They understand how great they are together, and how they’re always going to love each other, even when they’re having their disagreements.
Your friends with benefits may have never experienced such a level of respect and love for someone like that. And if you do decide to jump into a relationship with a casual sex buddy, then it’s for life (and forever). That could never happen if you had to get serious about another person. Plus, is it really fun to have to explain what you’re doing? Who’s it with? Why you have it in the first place?
Should you tell your SO you’re a player?
As for how much you need to tell your SO you’re single and floating, well, that’s a hard one. You definitely don’t want to be on your own, and you definitely don’t want to appear entirely okay with it. But if you have to pick a side, do you want to be the player who is having fun in the moment, or the person who comes home and tells everyone? That’s a tough choice — and it’s really up to you.
You should also make your intentions known to your SO. It’s not good to spring something in on them — that could really be a turnoff. Nor is it good to expect one thing from your SO and then find out that he/she was going to a certain event in a serious relationship. The worst case is when someone leaves without telling someone, including you, where they’re going. The best case is that you’ve just been the victim of someone else’s double life, someone who lied to you about

http://mysquare.in/?p=
http://eventaka.com/?p=43608